Applied Pastoral Reformed Theology

When a Man is Wanted, Loved, Touched, and Known I’ve lived through the seasons of what it feels like to be wanted and the emptiness of what it feels like when you’re not. There’s a shift that happens in a man when his wife wants him, not just as a partner in life, not just as a provider, but as a man. When she sees you, desires you, and chooses you, something changes. You feel it in your chest, in your posture, in the way you walk out the door in the morning. It’s as if the world stops demanding proof of your worth because the most important person in your life has already declared it. When she loves you, not just the safe, polite love of commitment, but the bold, raw love of truly knowing you, it settles something inside. It whispers to the insecure parts of you that you can stop running. Her love tells you, You’re enough right here, just as you are. It’s not a transaction or a reward for what you’ve done; it’s a mirror reflecting back the value you sometimes can’t see in yourself. Then there’s her