Applied Pastoral Reformed Theology

To be alone is often a fear most cannot consider, much less face. The silence of solitude terrifies because it leaves us with nothing but ourselves, stripped of the noise that so often fills our days and drowns out the questions we are too afraid to ask. Yet, in solitude lies a gift unmatched, a chance to meet the self hidden beneath the weight of the world’s demands. In solitude, we find our way. We hear the voice that speaks only when the echoes of others fade, the voice that has been with us all along. It calls us back to who we are, back to what is true. The helpful tones of others, lending their opinions, their advice, their expectations, those echoes recede, and we are left with clarity. Yes, it is far better to be alone than to be driven mad by the endless race for attention. Far better to sit with yourself, even in discomfort, than to seek connection as a means to see your reflection. For if you cannot see yourself, how can anyone else? How can a world glimpse the depths of your soul if you cann