Applied Pastoral Reformed Theology

“I need nothing.” The words hang in the air like they shouldn’t belong to me, but they do. They weren’t always mine, though. There was a time when the word need felt like an open door to panic, a constant grasping for something—validation, security, meaning—that I didn’t believe I had. Back then, every want disguised itself as a need, and I let it drive me, like a machine powered by fear of not being enough. Now, that’s all changed. What I have today, I don’t need. It’s not that I don’t appreciate it or value it; I do. But I’ve come to realize that my worth, my identity, and my groundedness aren’t tied to anything outside myself. I need nothing because everything I truly need already exists within me. “It’s OK to want something, but you can’t need it.” Those words land heavier than they look on the surface. They force you to stop and question: What do I need? Not just in a practical sense, but at the deepest level—what do I truly, unshakably, need? What you need is always tied to who you are at any g