Legally Clueless

Welcome back to For Mannerless Women, the podcast creating a bold, shame-free space for African women to meet their most free selves. In this deeply vulnerable episode, Adelle sits down with counseling psychologist Daisy Kindi to unpack how childhood trauma still whispers in our adult relationships, from who we’re drawn to, to how we react in love. They explore:What really qualifies as childhood trauma in African homesWhy your inner child might be running the show in your relationshipsThe hidden ways trauma shapes attachment stylesFirstborn daughters, survival personalities & the invisible labor of African girlsThe healing journey: shadow work, boundaries, and reclaiming your storyWhether you’re in therapy, considering it, or just beginning to question old patterns, this is your sign to start unlearning with us.