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Judy Wilkins-Smith – Creating the Relationships We WantAired Thursday, September 2, 2021 at 4:00 PM PST / 7:00 PM ESTNeuroscience teaches us that how we are in relationships is the result of patterns learned from the beginning of life in our interactions with our caregivers. According to Judy Wilkins-Smith, that’s some of the explanation, but not the full story. Our relationships often begin in the emotional DNA and events of our ancestors. Because our patterns of relating can be demonstrated to be generationally transmitted both in family and organizational systems, our patterns of relationships are often not ours. Moreover, whenever we feel lost, trapped, stuck, resentful, angry, fearful, or diminished in a relationship, we are likely perpetuating a multigenerational relationship pattern in our family system at our cost, which serves neither us nor the system. To start the journey of creating strong relationships, we need to look at the relationships that aren’t working.Our relationships are our keys to suc