You're Not The Boss Of Me!

Hey Friend!On today’s podcast we will be talking about the past.  Or at least your past self.  And what you wish you knew before you started your MLM journey.  The saying that hindsight is 20/20 definitely applies here.  We all wish we could go back and train ourselves to be better.However - then you would skip past the learning phase.  Growth is personal and as humans we are growing and evolving every single day.  When you keep looking to the past, you can forget to see what is right in front of you. You have an epic opportunity to be your best self and show up as the business leader you were meant to be every single day.On this episode you will learn:Why it is important to look forwards not backwardsHow to look at your mistakes as opportunitiesWhy it’s important to follow your heartGet on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)Bethholdengraves.com/VIPWant to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? Bethholdengraves.com/FacebookJoin our amazing

Hey Friends!On today’s podcast we will be talking about how social media can make a difference in our everyday business.  It is easy to get lost in trends and post whatever content is trendy in the social selling world.  However - that’s usually one of the biggest mistakes people make.Social media can be a tough area to figure out - but the reality is that it is really quite simple.  You have to ask yourself - what are people getting out of following me?  What value am I providing?  These are hard questions, but very important ones. On today’s episode you will learn:Why your content really mattersHow you can still niche down and be a social sellerYou don’t have to broadcast things immediately - wait until they can make an impactGet on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)Bethholdengraves.com/VIPWant to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? Bethholdengraves.com/FacebookJoin our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training) www.t

Hey Friend!Today’s episode is all about the power of manifestation and what your internal dialogue is saying.  I truly believe that thoughts have power - and if you are thinking negative thoughts, you are going to attract negative energy.  The opposite is true for positive thoughts.The power of your mind is an amazing thing.  Positivity is power.  Affirmations aren’t just lines you read every day because you feel you should - you need to make a conscious effort to believe them and the power they can have.On today’s episode you will learn:How your thoughts shape outcomesThat harboring negative energy in your business just might be what is holding you backWhy loving yourself is one of the most powerful and helpful things you can do for yourself and your businessThank you so much for joining me today and I hope you come back to listen next week!Free Community for Social Sellers/Network Marketers www.thecampelevategroup.com This week’s FREE Training Resource: How to attract the RIGHT people to your business: www.

In today's episode of You're Not the Boss of Me we are chatting about why sales still matter.  Nowadays you hear all the gurus saying - just post on social media, put your products in your stories, and the customers will come.  And the thing is - maybe they will... and maybe they won't.  Maybe they are afraid to ask without having an invitation. Before the internet, people used to have to hustle to make sales.  Anyone remember encyclopedias?  Think about how hard they worked to get a sale.  Now (those of you that are old enough) think about how many people had encyclopedias in their house.   My guess is quite a few.  The invitation, the presentation, and the sale are some things that seem to get lost in the showiness of social media.  Listen in as I go into detail about how important these things still are. What you will learn today- How there is power in simplicityThe art of a great invitationWhy being brave is so important There is even a cameo from Rob Sperry himself today - you definitely don't want to mi

On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me we are going to talk about playing the blame game in your social selling/network marketing business and in fact, all areas of your life.  We are also going to talk about radical personal responsibility - what it means, and how you can take advantage of it. Playing the blame game is toxic to your business and your life - but you don’t have to get stuck in that cycle.  You can always choose your own path in life.  So in this episode I want you to clear your mind, take a deep breath and buckle up to listen to all the ways you can move past the blame game. In this episode you will learn: How to tell if you are playing the blame gameHow to pull yourself out of that cycleHow to practice radical personal responsibility Thank you so much for tuning in - and I can’t wait to bring you next week’s episode! 

Welcome back to another episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me.  In this episode we are going to be talking about 3 simple ways you can easily build your authority.  Building authority when you are running a business is one of the most important things you can do in order to be successful.  There do not need to be any grand gestures, just a few things that help people open their eyes to your knowledge and experience.The other thing we are going to talk about is the importance of branding.  Branding helps with customer and personal recognition.  They are scrolling through social media, see your color- and pause to look at what you have to say.  Things you will learn in this episode:Three simple ways to build your authority.Why branding is important and how you can uplevel yours.The power of a testimonial.I hope you enjoy this weeks episode and we will see you next week!

In today’s episode we will be talking about your super power and the importance of protecting your audience.  If you read the email last week, you know what happened to me recently.  I have learned a lot and come to terms with what it means.  But I want you to learn from my mistakes!  That is why we are talking about everything you can do to prevent the loss of your connections on social media and the absolute importance of an email list.  I can't wait to share this with you! In this episode you will learnWhat I learned from my experienceThe importance of making a solid email listWhat to do if something like this ever happens to you I hope you enjoy this episode and be sure to tune in next week as well.  It’s time for your vision to take a starring role in your life and business and I can’t wait to take you on this journey. 

In today’s episode we will be talking about connections.  Connections make all of the difference in your business - whether you are a social seller or real estate agent.  It’s all about having that one on one time where you are truly focused on the person in front of you.  They know it - and they appreciate it. This means the world when you are in the business of sales.  You don’t have to spend 8 hours a day connecting with new people - sometimes it is just as important to connect with your current customers as well.  After all, a great customer is a great source of referrals. In this episode you will learnMy routine for making connectionsThe importance of making time to connect with your customersHow to clear your mind so you have the focus you need to make those connections I hope you enjoy this episode and be sure to tune in next week as well.  It’s time for your vision to take a starring role in your life and business and I can’t wait to take you on this journey. 

In today’s episode we will be talking about resolutions and how they relate to the vision you have of yourself.  The thing is - resolutions and the vision you have of yourself are not supposed to be revolutions.  You have to give yourself not only the space, but the grace to grow into your vision. Your vision is your future.  But you aren’t going to get there overnight.  It is something to work for - not jump off a cliff for.  When you push yourself to do things you can’t possibly maintain, you are more than likely going to fail.  And then you get frustrated.  So listen up - because you are going to learn how to avoid that! In this episode you will learn:How to create routines that are vision-alignedWhy connection means everythingHow our own fears can hold us hostage. I hope you enjoy this episode and be sure to tune in next week as well.  It’s time for your vision to take a starring role in your life and business and I can’t wait to take you on this journey.

Today we are talking about your vision.  The big one.  The perfect one.  The one that makes you curl your toes up in happiness.  One that will hopefully motivate you today to go after your dreams - and go ALL IN. Being able to visualize what you want and your perfect day in your business is so important to your future.  Because if you can’t see it- how will you get there?  So today we are going to go over how to make that happen and get excited about your future. There are also a few announcements that you don’t want to miss! Here’s what you will learn today:Why you need to be able to visualize your futureHow to shut down dis-empowering thoughtsWhy gratitude is a giftA big book announcement! I hope today’s podcast will inspire you to dream big and start making plans to go after those dreams at a run.  How to figure out what is in your way and what you need to do to bypass the bad energy and say “2022 - here I come!”Learn More About The Content Discussed…Get the book here! Join the Camp Elevate private group:

"Whenever a promo comes out, that's the trigger. Why am I triggered by promos?" If you have similar thoughts about triggers or trauma like I do, then this episode is for you.  In this episode of You're Not The Boss Of Me, I'm interviewing Amanda Bolzau. Amanda is a Trauma-Informed Certified Professional Subconscious Mindset Coach, Mentor and Advocate working with women on the rise who want to Self-actualize, Grow, or just live a more Empowered life. She specializes in recovery from Intimate Partner Abuse, with an emphasis on Narcissistic, Sociopathic and Psychopathic relationships. Her methods focus on recovery of your soul through recovery of your mind, first. Amanda's expertise in trauma education and processing, neuroplasticity, metacognition, and various somatic and subconscious modalities helps you break apart your old conditioning so you can live a truly free life. Her work empowers you to peel away the layers of inauthentic versions of yourself in order to reclaim who you were always meant to be. She p

Are you ready for your best year ever in network marketing? This week we are talking about how you can make 2022 the best year of your business (and maybe even the best year of your life!). In this episode of You're Not The Boss Of Me, I'm talking about how you can create the best year of your network marketing business. What we cover in this episode: Look at where you are now, what you might have lost, what you are grateful for.Fear is how you live in the present, based on the power and intention of an unwanted future you don't want to have happen.The importance of where you put your focus and intention.Lessons I learned from my dad that I still use today!Join me in this week’s episode as I talk about manifesting and setting up 2022 as your best year in network marketing. Learn More About The Content Discussed…Join the Camp Elevate private group: http://thecampelevategroup.comSubscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, or your favorite app!

Our bodies are our biggest motivators, so when your body starts giving you signs that something needs attention, it's time to listen. You can't 'have it all' if you're procrastinating, unmotivated, or ignoring the steps to abundance. Hi, I’m your host, Beth Holden Graves, and I help women make money without sacrificing their sanity or their souls. I know I am a powerful connector and I can help women with mindset, vision, and taking action by helping them to connect with the right people and tools.My mission is to build and grow a movement of women who are brave enough to say YES to themselves and their impact in BIG ways.In this episode of You're Not The Boss Of Me, I'm talking about the steps you can take to getting onto the abundance path. What we cover in this episode: My journey to growing into abundance and alignment. Letting go of things from 2021 so you can move into 2022 and accept abundance. Being open and curious about moving into an empowering space. Join me in this week’s episode as I talk about

When you want to say no, it can seem like you need to give four million excuses. Newsflash, you don't have to make excuses. You can just say no. Hi, I’m your host, Beth Holden Graves, and I help women make money without sacrificing their sanity or their souls. I know I am a powerful connector and I can help women with mindset, vision, and taking action by helping them to connect with the right people and tools.My mission is to build and grow a movement of women who are brave enough to say YES to themselves and their impact in BIG ways.In this episode of You’re Not The Boss Of Me, I’m talking about how and why it's ok to just say no without having that guilt or anxiety from saying no. What we cover in this episode: Do you want to be accountable for the task someone asked you to do? How to say no clearly, and with love. What feels aligned?Full body connection, full body feels and what they mean. Is it overcommitment? Fear? Join me in this week’s episode as I explain the difference between fear and 'full body no

This week's episode is a replay of one of my top (and favorite!) episodes ever. Tune in because this episode is a truly special one for me, because, I’m about to tell you the good, the bad and the very ugly side of pursuing your goals from a point of total disconnection with your inner self and the real reason of why I started working with women to help them build their businesses.  Getting to the top of your game is not an easy path to walk through, but it doesn’t have to be a complete sacrifice. What I’m about to share with you today is a series of wake up calls that I kept ignoring for too long and sadly, the hardest moments are the ones that make you realize how lost you are. Tune in for this intimate girl talk and let’s start working on these valuable lessons, that I had to learn the bad way, but hopefully, you guys won’t have to.   Learn More About The Content Discussed…Join the Camp Elevate private group: http://thecampelevategroup.comSubscribe to the podcast on Apple, Spotify, Google, or your favorite

The holidays can be a very stressful time of year. If you are tired of feeling depleted, tired, and exhausted by the end of the holiday season, this episode is for you.Hi, I'm your host, Beth Holden Graves, and I help women make money without sacrificing their sanity or their souls. I know I am a powerful connector and I can help women with mindset, vision and taking action by helping them to connect with the right people and tools.My mission is to build and grow a movement of women who are brave enough to say YES to themselves and their impact in BIG ways.In this episode of You're Not The Boss Of Me, I'm talking about how to turn the tables so that instead of feeling tired, exhausted, and depleted by the end of the holiday season, you'll feel that joy that the holidays used to bring again.What you'll learn from this episode:-How to create exactly what you crave in your personal or entrepreneurial life.-Part one of "How To Slay The Holiday List"-How to have the conversation with others to delegate tasks that

If you were to sit and have a conversation ten years from today, and she's saying 'I'm so proud of you...' what would she say that would make her proud of how you've lived?   When you think about the boundaries for business, what are you letting in and not saying no to?   Where can you say no in order to make space for the dreams you have?   What are you consuming?   If your goal is to learn how to set boundaries to help you reach success, then this episode for you. Join me as I share my insights and personal experiences on how to set boundaries in your personal life and business in order to become the best version of yourself.   Check out Noodles the pug to find out if today is a "Bones Day" or a "No Bones Day":  https://www.tiktok.com/@jongraz Follow me on Instagram @bethholdengraves  Join us in Camp Elevate: Thecampelevategroup.com 

Are you guilty of pointing fingers at someone when something goes wrong or when you feel threatened? Do you put yourself in the distance whenever a problem arises instead of making up for your mistakes?Do you dwell more on the past more than focusing on the present?It is natural for us to feel defensive and tend to shift the blame towards others to make us feel better about ourselves - which is wrong. Playing the blame game doesn’t help you solve your problems. So how can you get through it?If your goal is to become personally responsible for the things that are your responsibility, then this episode for you.Join me as I share my insights and personal experiences on how to overcome the blame game and to become a responsible adult. 

When you are blessed with intelligence, good education, and a bright future, what else would you want in life? Like any normal person, wouldn’t you choose to settle in the flow and rise up the corporate ladder as you ought? Life could have been simpler and less complicated. You could even end up as a world leader for all you know, right?  That is what a typical person would look like, but Grace Van Cleave is not your typical woman.  Her journey to the top began at the figurative pit. While she looked sophisticated in her great clothes, income, and career in America’s capital, she’s also buried in bills and debts. All she wanted was a way out.And out she did!You may feel shivers at the back of your neck just picturing the level of success and the figures of income Grace has attained today. But you can trust she also started at ground zero.All she took with her is the knowledge and unwavering faith that if others could do it, so can she.How often have you turned down an opportunity thinking that you’re already

Gratitude is something that we feel when we're faced with kindness and good things in general. But, what's really behind this emotion we call 'gratitude'?In today's podcast, "The Brain Game and Gratitude", we'll be talking about RAS and how gratitude works in our brains.  Join me and guest speaker Mel Robbins as we dive into the science of being thankful.  Let's go!  Follow me:@bethholdengraves   Join us in Camp Elevate:  Thecampelevategroup.com