You're Not The Boss Of Me!

We are already halfway through another month! For many, it’s a month of mixed emotions as kids are returning to school and college campuses. Some are happy with the structure and consistency that the school year brings, while others miss the freedom that summer can often offer.Do you remember that summertime feeling as a kid? You know, that feeling of not having to be up and out of the house at a certain time, being able to eat when you want, instead of when you can find time, and that feeling of being able to do what you want, when you want?Well, what if that summertime feeling never had to end? I know - we’re adults now - we have responsibilities!But, what if you could create a business that would give you time freedom and financial freedom?That would be amazing, right? Getting started, though, can be a little overwhelming! In today’s podcast, I’m going to explain some ways that you can make money online, explaining the difference between selling physical products, passive income products, and direct sales.

Hi and welcome back!! Before we get started today, I just want to mention that, if you have not listened to the previous two episodes, I would encourage you to start there. Today’s podcast is an extension of the work that we have been doing from those episodes.In the previous two episodes, we have packed a suitcase full of the stories, self talk, and aspirations that make us feel “real” - and we’ve started to let go of those that no longer fit or that are not needed for our journey. We’ve also set our GPS, creating a 1-year vision and deciding who we will be along with other juicy details of what our lives will look like a year from now. The next step is to audit and edit our current habits to decide what moves us forward and what might be holding us back from showing up in our daily lives as that person in our vision. This is not an overnight process. I want to make that very clear. If you try to overhaul your entire life in 24 hours, or even in the week in between podcasts, you will create chaos and resista

Wow! It is so hard to believe that we are welcoming a brand new month again already, isn’t it? August, already! We are over six months into 2022, and it feels like we’ll blink and find ourselves in the middle of the holiday season.While 2022 is flying by, there is still plenty of time left to make it a truly incredible, life-changing year.But only if we are willing to do the work. Last week, we talked about that “suitcase” that we all pack and carry around with us. I introduced you to the idea of being more selective of what you pack in an effort to travel lighter - and get rid of that baggage charge you’re always having to pay! If you haven’t listened to the previous episode, I want to encourage you to do so because what I’ll share with you today is step #2.So, now your suitcase is packed with the things that you need to carry - you’ve taken out the antelope and cantaloupe, realizing they’re just not yours to carry. And now it’s time to head out on your journey.But where are you going?As you move into creati

It’s summer - and for many of us, summer includes travel and vacations.Whether you’re traveling by car or catching a flight, one of the first things you have to do is to decide what to pack! Now, a lot of times, I start out strong planning what to take with me by how many days I’ll be gone and what I’ll be doing. But, if you’re like me, packing is hard because of all the “what ifs” that start to creep in.So, what do we do??We just start grabbing things and throwing them in the suitcase “just in case.” We pack every pair of underwear we own for our 4-day trip - just in case. We even throw in things we haven’t worn in months - just in case. Please tell me I’m not alone here. And I want you to think of what that suitcase starts to look like. Now, all the sensible things that we packed ends up buried beneath the “just in case.” It’s harder to get the suitcase closed, things aren’t as organized, and what you need is harder to find or to get to.It’s kind of like that game, I’m Going on a Trip - you know the one. Wh

Here we go as another week begins and we are faced with all the things that need to get done this week. Work.Home.Kids.Family.Friends.Pets.And the TO DO list of everything that needs to be taken care of goes on and on, right?But, are YOU on that list? Or are you so busy running on the hamster wheel of “do all the things” that you’ve forgotten your self, your spark, & your truth?If you’re feeling stuck in your business and maybe even in your life, in general, it could mean that it’s time for you to simply surrender.I know what you might be thinking: “Beth, I’m here because I want to learn what to DO to grow my business. Just tell me what I need to DO.”And I hope that you’ll trust me and listen to today’s podcast in its entirety because, what I’m about to share with you, I wish I had known when I was building my business.I burned myself out in many ways because I tried to control all the pieces of my business, while also trying to control all that was happening within my family and my home. I wanted to post

I AM.Two of the most powerful words.For what you put after them, shapes your reality.I AM statements are used to created positive affirmations that many can say have helped to give them peace, confidence, and motivation!So, what if you’re doing all the right things and saying all the right affirmations, yet you’re not seeming to attract the things you truly desire.No, it doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong or that you have the wrong mindset. It doesn’t mean that you need to try harder or say your affirmations more often. In fact, there’s truly nothing wrong with YOU.The problem is subconscious. Affirmations target the conscious level of your mind, but not the subconscious. If what you are trying to affirm is out of alignment with a deeply held negative belief, it brings about a sort of inner struggle. And here’s why that is such a big deal:We don’t attract what we WANT.We attract what we THINK we DESERVE!So, that deeply held negative belief buried and trapped in your subconscious could be the reason your affir

Happy 4th of July to all of you!For many of us, today is set aside for summertime fun with family and friends to honor and celebrate FREEDOM.In that same spirit, today’s podcast will honor and celebrate FREEDOM. No, we’re not discussing 1776 or singing the lyrics from Hamilton (but that does sound fun!)Today, I have PranaMama, Faryl Moore, on the podcast with me, and we will be discussing how she uses Pranic Healing techniques to remove blocks, traumas, negative energies, and thought forms that hold women back from achieving their purpose and intentions in the world. She specializes in elevating women using her intentional reframe, allowing her to successfully remove the blocks so her clients realize their potential.Imagine that for a moment. FREEDOM from whatever it is that continues to hold you back.I think you will love Faryl's energy! In this podcast, you will feel her energy as she explains:Pranic HealingThe Chakra SystemEnergetic Blocks & CongestionIf you read any of this and think that it’s just to

I almost didn’t record this podcast.The “shitty committee” inside my head met and tried to convince me that my message wasn’t important and that it had all been said before.Do you struggle with your own version of a shitty committee that discourages you, makes you feel self conscious, or causes you to doubt yourself?If you do, then I want you to know that I recorded this podcast just for you.I silenced the committee and changed my thinking. I reminded myself that even if I only reached one person who needed  this message, then my message IS IMPORTANT!And I want to help you to learn to do the same. I want you to be able to tell the shitty committee to sit down and shut up! I want you to take your power back.When we say judgemental and critical things to ourselves it lowers our vibration and makes us feel unworthy or as though we’re not enough.It takes radical personal responsibility to NOTICE the negative thoughts creeping in, to INTERRUPT them, and then to CHANGE them altogether.Over the next few podcasts, I’

Today, I want you to think back to your time in middle school . . .The hormones. The need to conform. The changes. The acne.Those were some hard times for so many of us as our bodies completely took over and we had to learn to navigate the changes, the relationship, and, most importantly - ourselves.In that same stream of thought, can you remember a time when you found out that someone said something negative about you? This person wasn’t someone you considered a friend, just someone you knew. How would that make you feel?Upset? Angry? Defensive?Because they are “rejecting” us without even knowing or understanding us.Now imagine that that person was your very best friend. How would that change the narrative? All of those other emotions and reactions turn to . . .Hurt.You might still feel upset, angry, or defensive, but it comes from a place of hurt when we are “rejected” by people who are important to us, and whose opinions validate us in some way. Now, we aren’t in middle school anymore, but sometimes we can

33 days ago, I committed to making a shift in my morning routine. This wasn't some "do more in less time" shift, and it wasn't a time-saving hack. That's definitely not what you'll find in today's podcast.In this podcast, I'll explain the shift that I made in my morning routine and how it has allowed me to release and to heal. This shift has dramatically cleared the clutter from my brain allowing me to make space for joy and connection. When you listen today, you'll learn:what Morning Pages arehow you can add Morning Pages to your morning routinehow Morning Pages can help you better connect with your guiding light feelingsI cannot wait for you to listen and to see if Morning Pages are a fit for your morning routine!

Make this the summer of YOU . . .Now, when I say this, I’m not talking about a summer of doing whatever you want at the expense of others, your business, or your health. Sometimes, “the summer of YOU” gets promoted as a selfish time of self indulgence with complete disregard of consequences.And, while that might be fun in the moment, I can assure you, there are always consequences.What I’m talking about when I say “the summer of YOU” is a time of making room for joy, peace, ease, and laughter. It’s about being intentional with your time to make the room and create the space for memories to be made – while still having the time to work your social selling business.Can you really have it all? And what does “having it all” even really mean?We’ll dive deeper into this in today’s podcast! And I’ll also provide some insight on taking your network marketing business mindset from grinding & sacrifice to growth & abundance.Finding ease and flow in life and in a home-based business takes practice. So, please un

What does it mean to truly build a brand? I’ll be honest, when I first started my network marketing business, I thought that building a brand was about colors and fonts. I focused my time and energy on having a certain superficial look because that’s what I thought I was supposed to do at the time.I didn’t realize that I WAS THE BRAND.I didn’t realize that the products and company that I partnered with should compliment MY MESSAGE . . . not the other way around.And that dragged me into a place of inauthenticity and way out of alignment.If you’re feeling a little lost when it comes to building a brand that vibes with who you are and that delivers your message, then you are going to love today’s podcast interview with Jordan Duvall!!She’s the CEO of Ignite Your Soul Brand & the go-to Brand Alchemist for female business owners ready to build an in-demand brand infused with meaning and magnetism.She left a 20-year media and advertising career to pursue her passion of creating magnetic brands infused with pers

The power of language is something that I've discussed with you on this podcast for a while now. But usually, we talk about affirmations, believing in yourself, and manifestation. All of those things are still so important, but today, I want to take the idea of the power of language in a bit of a new direction.Is there power in the words we choose when we talk to ourselves, as we handle the ups and downs of social selling? If so, how do we use this to our advantage as work to help others?In today's episode I will give you examples of how positive and negative self talk directly affect the outcome of business-related situationsexplain how positive and negative self talk affects the energy that surrounds those outcomesprovide tips on how you can get clarity on the message(s) your social media content sends out into the worldGet on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)Bethholdengraves.com/VIPWant to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? Bethhol

On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me, we will dive into the topic of financial literacy. If you’ve ever struggled with your relationship with money or your finances, I truly think this interview with financial coach, Diana Greshtchuk, will speak to you.For me, this was a safe space for me to get vulnerable and real about my own issues and beliefs about money - and I hope that, as you listen, you will feel led to do the same.In this episode we discuss:How the stories you tell yourself about money affect your financial literacyHow to turn financial anxiety into financial abundanceHow getting financially "naked" can transform your entire relationship with moneyGet on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)Bethholdengraves.com/VIPWant to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? Bethholdengraves.com/FacebookJoin our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training) www.thecampelevategroup.com

Hi friends!Welcome back, and thank you for checking out Episode 143!On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me, we are going to discuss closing scripts and how to not feel so shut off and pushy-pushy!  Oftentimes, we feel uncomfortable closing our sale because we've been taught or grew up thinking that asking for the sale was "bad".   Today, I'm here to uncover the truth about hesitancy and what to do INSTEAD of copy/pasting a traditional sales script!  We're gunna go at this with a whole new attitude!I want you to take in today's episode to transform your belief in the product or service you sell and know how to truly reach out to your audience with your beautiful light and energy.  They will be attracted to your light, my friend!In this episode we discuss:How to believe in what you're selling so that it shows in your energy!How not to take a "No" too personally.  Remember, their opinion has nothing to do with you!How to take the word "just" out of our vocabulary.  "Just checking in..." "just grab a cal

Hi friends!Welcome back, and thank you for checking out Episode 142!Today, you my friend, are in for a HUGE treat.  Have you ever really thought about what you REALLY desire?  I mean, have you thought about your perfect vision of success and what that means for you?  How good can it really get?   Tracy Litt, the creator of mindshift and elevated programs like Mind Magic and Powerhouse, is here to dive in to the ways that our own minds define success.  Her take is both inspiring and intriguing and one like I've never heard before.  Think about this for a minute.  You get to choose how you feel. What?  Your mind and emotions and control of your reaction has everything to do with the way that you choose to perceive the situation.  Does that also include how we view success?  Check out todays episode to elevate your mind and emotions to the next level!In this episode we discuss:Success and its true meaning.Leadership and how to make it a safe place for connection.Manifestation requires Action - Its not just dream

Hi friends!Welcome back, and thank you for checking out Episode 141!On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me, we are going to focus on expansion and receiving.  As business owners, its so easy to dwell on the tasks of our businesses, it causes stress and overwhelm and a state of being negative.  Why did they leave my team?  How am I going to get all of this done?  How do I attract new leads?  How do we become a high achiever and think bigger?  Today, I really dig into being open to receiving.  I dig into being in a state of gratitude for what we are becoming and who we have become so far.  Nothing beautiful comes from a stressful state, so today, I walk you through some steps to be in a mindset of constant gratitude and grace.  We will talk about personal responsibility and talk about how we can have the business and life that we want, if we use gratitude, energy and control to guide our moves in business and in life.   I'll challenge you to see into the future and question if the situation you are in

Hi friends!Welcome back, and thank you for checking out Episode 140!On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me, we are going to focus on expansion.  As business owners, its so easy to dwell on the "how" of our businesses.  How do we get a new business partner started?  How do we reach out to new leads?  How do we become a high achiever and think bigger?  How do we manage our business time, our family time and our self care?Today, I really dig into thinking bigger.  Expanding our minds and the choices that we have to let go of old ideas and thoughts that hold us back.  We will talk about personal responsibility and talk about how we can have the business and life that we want, if we use confidence and positive energy to move us forward.  I'll challenge you to see into the future and make promises to yourself!  I can't wait for you expand your thoughts with me!In this episode we discuss:Thinking positively, taking personal responsibility and expanding the ideas you have for business and life!What keeps us

Hi Friend!Hello and welcome to episode 139 of You’re Not the Boss of Me.  In this episode we are talking about availability. The thing about making yourself available 24/7 to your team, is that it doesn’t actually help anyone.  Boundaries are important in any business, and especially in the social selling world.  You need to protect your time and set the example for those below you as well.Because what happens when you are available all of the time?  You burn out.  It’s unavoidable.  So how do you prevent it and what do you do if you are already in that situation? That’s what we are going to go over today.  And you will have answers.  And I can’t wait to help.Things you will learn in this episode:How I struggled with boundaries myselfHow I overcame my 24/7 mentalityHow you can learn from my mistakesGet on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)Bethholdengraves.com/VIPWant to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? Bethholdengraves.com/FacebookJo

Hi friends! On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me, we begin our journey people watching at the airport.  You can learn so much from observation.  Each observation leads to an emotion in a different part of you.  The key is - you are feeling it, and that’s okay. When you are digging deep for clarity within yourself, for you or your business, emotions are an important part of that clarity.  You need to feel to see yourself as you should be and what you should be doing.  So don’t discount the importance of taking a few minutes to truly feel your emotions.   In this episode we discuss:The importance of breathingFinding that space within yourself to figure out what to do nextThe importance of genuine, real connectionGet on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)Bethholdengraves.com/VIPWant to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? Bethholdengraves.com/FacebookJoin our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training) www.thecampe